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What is society’s definition of an ideal man, and what are his commitments to the community? In a world full of misconceptions and false news, clarity is power and true strength. We live in a society where everyone has their definition, and the information is divided up, but we can’t deny the rules of nature and there’s no point in arguing about it because men are biologically programmed to perform specific tasks. Having the title of “man” comes with particular responsibilities, and how a man fulfills those responsibilities defines his identity.
Desire to be a masculine Man:
All boys aspire to be like the men they admire. Men are born to lead and take responsibility. Some are fortunate to learn from their fathers and heroes, while others must stand up for themselves. Before deciding what they want to do with their lives, I believe that men should first learn about the fundamental concepts of masculinity and live up to these Three Ps of masculinity.
- Provide
- Protect
- Procreate
The P’s of masculinity
1. PROTECT
A man’s development through the stages of manhood is unquestionably marked by the need to protect himself and those around him. When it comes to protecting something, a man must be both physically and mentally strong. Men must protect and own their possessions and their families to fulfill this responsibility should be aware of their surroundings and alert to any danger that may be approaching them. A man must act and make decisions in the best interest of what they are protecting. They must also protect and own their lives. Only strong and masculine men are capable of facing the threat and making well-considered decisions and that will protect the assets that they are entrusted with protecting.
A protector must have these qualities:
- Physical Strength and Endurance.
- Irresistibility to pain and discomfort and coolness under pressure.
- Courage — the ability to stand firm in the face of fear.
- Strategic skill set.
- As a protector, one should be prepared to physically prove one’s abilities (wrestling, sparring, competitive…